Reasonable dating expectations
QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?You begin interacting with the thoughts in your head rather than with the person in front of you.
At this point, instead of him feeling like he’s connecting with you, he feels like you’re trying to get something out of him.
All anyone really wants is to feel OK, and most of us don’t.
When a woman worries and needs constant reassurance, it comes from a feeling of, “I am not OK” and the feeling beneath that is fear.
You know how sometimes you’ll go to take a sip of water and you literally can’t stop chugging?
You didn’t even realize you were thirsty, it’s only when you begin to quench the silent thirst that you realize how potent it was. MORE: 5 Ways to Ruin a Budding Relationship It’s tough for someone to nail down the source of feeling not OK, but they unconsciously latch onto things that will get rid of this feeling, usually through reassurance or trying to make situations come about that they feel will make them happy and finally grant them relief.
After a few great dates with a seemingly great guy, most women can’t help but get excited about the possibilities.